Find a trauma-informed
gynaecologist you can trust.

“She shows genuine intention to help, and I am sure other people would have the same to say about her. A lot of doctors indulge in malpractices, even though they might eventually help you. Once they realize that the person is in a bothersome situation, there's nothing to stop them from taking you for a ride, but eventually they might help you. The problem with that isn't that their unnecessary tests are going to burden the person financially, it is that in such moments of stress and anxiety not knowing what will happen for quite some time only aggravates the suffering and anxiety of the individual. Therefore, assurances from a medical professional are of utmost importance.”

“She made me feel safe and welcome and asked about my sexual activity with no reference to marriage or relationships. She was professional while being warm. I recommend her highly to all my friends.”

“I know she has asked parents accompanying their underage (pregnant) daughters to step out of the consulting room so she can counsel the women independently, so that they can arrive at decisions without pressure from said parents. Also very receptive to listenin learning so I'm guessing even if knowledge about sex toys etc may not be all that much. No compunctions with addressing pre-marital sex. Prescribed a pill with least side effects for me. Has provided counselling on the importance of having safe sex (when she was aware I wasn't married).”

“The doctor is a little detached and matter-of-fact - which works for me - we get down to business right away and questions are answered without unnecessary comment.”

“Dr. Vashishta heads a clinic specialising in infertility treatments, so her focus is conception with Assisted Reproductive Technologies. As someone trying to be a single mother, I went in very assertive about my right to be respected and not judged, and while it was unusual for her, she took my lead and was supportive. She's not the most sophisticated when it comes to queerness or kink terminology, and I needed to google things she prescribed to me to understand them better than her own explanations, but she encourages googling and admits that people with access to the internet can stay more informed than her. The biggest reason why I would recommend her in spite of her flaws about chatting about clients with other clients and discussing diagnoses in the waiting room with her receptionist is - When I worried about the pain a speculum would cause me, she suggested on her own that I could insert it myself. THIS WAS HUGE. Because I did it myself, it didn't hurt at all while going in, and there was only a minor flash of pain when she opened it. Everyone should insert their own speculums! (and of course, familiarise themselves with their own vaginas enough to feel confidant about inserting stuff into them.) She's also been really good about informing me about all my options and then letting me make my own choices about which ART meds and procedures I want to do. Her matter-of-fact kindness, even when I sense she's a bit out of her depth at my life choices, has left a very positive residue.”

“I think she is thoroughly professional with no judgmental tones. She came highly recommended by a friend who has given her panicked calls after unprotected sex. I have been dealing with infections for a long time and visited many gynaes, some of who are on the list, but been most comfortable discussing absolutely anything regarding my vagina!”

“I wouldn't say she is inherently open to different people's life choices but she is sensitive enough to adjust her interactions once she is informed about them. She makes an effort to rise above her own mindset. She is warm and friendly and her focus is first and foremost on your health. She also doesn't rush through consultations, which is a relief! I've gone to her with some extremely awkward questions relating to issues that cropped up in sexual intercourse and she was very matter-of-fact about addressing just the medical part of the problem. She was patient and non-judgmental. Her advice was spot on.”

“She was very non judgmental when she spoke to me, aware of my non marital status, did a check up and only wanted to help.”

“Dr Badhwar is the gynaec you 'dream' of she's extremely competent, up-to-date and non-judgmental I spoke to her about my partner at the time, mental illness, suicidal tendencies, drugs, etc. she was helpful in discussing all these without judging me or my partner she referred me to a great psychologist”

“For once, this doctor is pro-natural delivery. I am in my ninth month and for the last 6 months I have only been hearing the advantages of natural delivery and disadvantages of a c-sec. She's a thorough professional and very calm as a person.”

“I trust this Gynae with my life. She's seen me through all sorts of stuff and I've never received any judgement from her.”

“Dr Rastogi isn't the sorts who'll listen to your symptoms mutely, then write down illegibly the names of some medicines and/or tests and get done with you. It was my second visit to the gynaecologist and all I wanted then was information and I must say Dr Rastogi really helped me understand PCOD. She took time to explain in detail (in my case she even drew and gave me a list of dos and dont's) my condition. She told me as much as it was possible to tell someone about PCOD in one sitting. She was non-judgemental and approachable.”

“I have had shitty and good experience with gynae on some sensitive topics. This one is not only excellent at her work (highly well reputed), she doesn't judge, is sensitive, and supportive.”

“Specialist in infertility treatments and child-birth. Down-to-earth person. Treats patient with respect and compassion. Knows how to interact with well-educated patients, and tries her best to provide elaborate answers/ explanations/ justifications on treatment carried out/ queries asked. She's not one of those Doctors who consider themselves God and expects unquestioning faith from patients.”

“He can be trusted blindly because he is ethical and not in the scheme of making money through C secs etc”

“She is a really great doctor, who does not pass a judgement on your physical health or sexual history. I have found her to be very candid, and she expects full disclosure from all her patients. She prescribes minimal medicines for treatments, and advocates non-allopaethic courses of action. An excellent excellent lady with decades of experience. Also, there is no advance booking of appointment, just a walk in.”

“She was very respectful and disarming in her manner - her objectivity put my girlfriend and I at ease straightaway.”

“this dr. had a very positive attitude while treating my anal sex wounds. Now even i enjoy it.”

“She's very chilled out about unmarried women being sexually active. Usually prescribes herbal/natural medication and mild allopathic medicine at first.”

“She is stern, will scold but never from a moralisitic point of view.”

“She seems non-judgmental and matter-of-fact. No invasive questions, no aggressive examinations. Very laidback.”

“I have never felt so much at ease and so relaxed before an appointment with a gynaecologist. She is wonderful. You will feel mothered and cared for. She will patiently explain the problem that your body seems to be facing, explain all possible solutions, explain the function of tests and medicines prescribed et al. I wish I could inform every young girl who is desperately searching for a good gynaecologist about her. A little heavy on your pocket but worth every penny.”

“Have been acquainted with Dr. Sonu for years and have never felt the need to change. She is highly competent in critical cases, able to spot any sign of trouble way before symptoms are aggravated. At the same time does nt prescribed unnecessary medications. Is very patient and very thorough when explaining the situation to you. Even when prescribing a test she will not insist on a particular centre, in fact, there has been a lot of cases where she has advised us to go to test centers who are more reasonable than others. Will keep seeing this doc as long as she's in Delhi”

“She is a very good gynaecologist who tries her best to use normal methods of delievery. She is not in favour of any kind of medicated birth but will use these ways when they are very necessary for the baby and mother. These days doctors will force you for c-section for their convinience and money but she is not one of them.”

“She doesn't see patients by appointment but first come first serve, so the waiting time can be long. Also, she often steps out to check on her in-patients. and if she has to deliver/call out for emergency during her opd hours then her attention is limited.”

“I felt she was thorough and systematic in her approach to diagnosing my illness (PCOD). She answered all questions I had comprehensively. I took my boyfriend with me the first time we went to see her. She was respectful and friendly.”

“She was very good and made sure I felt comfortable through out.”

“I first encountered Dr. Sikka when I accompanied a friend for a consultation- my friend was in college, not married, and wanted to know about the contraceptive options available to her. Dr. Sikka made her feel very comfortable during the consultation, and I was impressed enough to go back to her myself and also recommended her to family members. From what I've experienced, her concern is solely regarding her patient's medical health -regarding pregnancy or contraception, she is not interested in your marital status and will not make you feel judged. When I was diagnosed with PCOD, I decided to try alternative therapy- homeopathy- and while Dr. Sikka preferred the line of biomedical treatment she suggested, she was open to me following homeopathic treatment, so that I could work with both doctors together. Dr. Sikka prescribed tests and ultrasounds and interpreted them regularly, and I took her feedback to my homeopath and eventually, I was PCOD free. I appreciated her openness to this. I have also once sent to Dr. Sikka a domestic staff person who worked in our home- this woman's young daughter was sexually molested and she wanted to make sure her daughter was infection-free. Dr. Sikka did not charge her for the consultation, even though I had sent the money for her fees. At the time I started going to her, she charged Rs 300 when other doctors in private hospitals in South Delhi were not charging less than Rs 500. So she is definitely not money-minded.”

“I went to the doctor when I suspected I have PCOS. She examined me and assured me that it was not the case. She could've easily asked me to get unnecessary tests done and come back to her, which is what most doctors do to make extra bucks. But she did no such thing. The doctor is extremely polite, non-judgemental and open to answering questions. The only problem is that the waiting times can cause quite a headache, since I've had to wait for over an hour, even with a confirmed appointment.”

“I had a horrible experience with this doctor. At first he did not want to hear my medical history, only my symptoms. While my symptoms were only relevant while placed in my history, as my periods were severely out of sync. After explaining my history to him he went on and on about how my endometriosis was treated wrongly before, that there was no need for an endometriosis patient to take hormones. What is endometriosis after all? It is just an abnormality to the body, just like the fact that he was bald was an abnormality to his body. At that point I got furious: how dare he as a doctor compare being bald with my disease, which has caused me so much physical pain that at one point I even dropped out of college, which will probably result in me having difficulties with conceiving. Yes, that is totally the same as being bald!”

“I was terrified when I went and she was a big help. She was accessible by phone if I had any questions in the following days. She answered everything I asked without judgement and even said she'd reprimand her office staff for being judgemental of my "unmarried" status. She's the best doctor I could've hoped for under the circumstances.”

“I decided to visit her after reading the testimonials on this spreadsheet. And I am happy to say that they weren't wrong. I went in with some anxiety and lot of questions. But she answered all my queries with patience, respect and without any judgement. I recommend her services wholeheartedly even though I do feel the costs are slightly steep.”

“We (=my girlfriend and I) were looking for effective birth control options; and wanted to consult a specialist keeping in mind the unique nuances of every individual. She carefully walked through our sexual and health history (we are an unmarried couple); and discussed different methods of birth control and their side effects, and prescribed us a regular oral contraceptive pill based on our discussion. We left completely satisfied, and it wasn't awkward at all.”

“I went to her for the first time at age 21 with a UTI, embarrassed and awkward, and she put me at ease immediately. She didn't judge me for being sexually active and prescribed minimal medication, and I felt better almost immediately. At that time, what I needed most was a doctor I could ask questions to frankly, and not worry that they would want to speak to my parents. I had been hearing stories from my friends at the time of gynecologists who would only entertain them if their mother was with them, or worse, would call their mothers and relay everything the minute they were out of the office. Poonam Singh was straightforward, understanding and non-judgmental and though I have not gone to her in recent times, as I preferred to find a gynecologist located closer to me, I have recommended her to various friends who have all been thrilled with her. She is unfazed by awkward questions and answers them patiently and reassuringly. I recommend her highly.”

“I have had absolutely horrid experiences of visiting mutiple gynaecologists in Delhi around 2 years ago when I had cysts in my vagina. I had visited 5 gynaecologists till I found Dr Geeta Chadha and Dr Raka Guleria. I expected to be morally judged by them as well but to my relief and surprise they were very easy to talk to and did not express any shock in finding out that I was unmarried and sexually active. Dr Raka Guleria does not unnecessarily prescribe medication.”

“She was just very non judgemental in her approach. Not judging sexual history or smoking or marijuana intake habits”

“Emotionally supportive. Relieved of the stress the moment I saw her. Infact she joked of my high BP and made a small talk about lifestyle stress. Gave positive assurance and explained willingly all the questions I had.”

“This was my first visit to a gyn. Very professional, very clear, very confident - very inviting as well. Will be happy to go back to her!”