“Only go to her if 1. you are ready to lie about being married 2. married and pregnant and want birth control only to space the next whelp 3. 'your mother knows' I was confident because if she did manage to tell my mother, my mother would have slapped her and shredded her licence to practice with her maw. She will always look at you from the lens of unmarried woman making a temporary bad judgement call, who will eventually marry and have family, NOT as a grown independent woman with a partner.”